Try A Little Tenderness

We sit outside, under the glow of a heat lamp, a bottle of Prosecco and an heirloom tomato salad between us.

I’m struggling to look up. Unexpected tears are building in my eyes and I don’t want him to see.  We’re talking about marriage casually, and feelings I didn’t know I still held on to are coming to the surface.

I try to explain without completely losing my composure that yes, even after walking away from one, marriage is important to me.  I believe in celebrating finding someone you want to spend your life with.

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Viva Indeed

Las Vegas is another world.

It’s like Disneyland for adults.  Everything you’re told to be careful with is there in abundance – sex, alcohol, gambling, and 24 hours of stimulation.

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I just returned from a work trip to sin city.  Surprisingly, I feel more relaxed that when I left.  Turns work trip with a large group of beautiful women was exactly what I needed. Continue reading

My Top 10 Healthy Snacks

I am well known for my love of snacking.

In university I remember my French teacher stopping mid-lecture “You’re eating again?!” 

Every job I have, no matter what the circumstances are, I find a way to eat well.IMG_1921

I wasted many of my younger years denying my body proper nutrition.  Now eating well is an important act of self love and care for me.  It also keeps me energized, mentally alert, calm and happy.  When I forget to eat throughout the day I’m often plagued with mood swings, anxiety and fatigue. Continue reading

10 Lessons from Over a Dozen Jobs

My cousin says that I’m a renaissance woman.

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A renaissance woman is defined as a woman who has broad intellectual interests and is accomplished in areas of both the arts and the sciences.

It is also a generous way to say that I have been a bit all over the place in my career.  I see life as an education and I am always excited to learn new skills.  Because of this I have been everything from a waitress, a chef, a nanny, a producer, a travel writer, a skincare advisor and more.

While I envy those who excel at one thing, I am trying to see the benefits of my multiple careers.  For one thing, I have learned a lot, and I have respect for every job choice out there.

So why not share with you?  Here are 10 lessons from doing well over a dozen jobs…

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Traded Everything for Love

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It’s funny to say I did.

Because in a way, a couple of years ago, I walked away from what I had thought was love.  So much so that I signed it on paper, made it official, declaring I wanted to spend my life with one person.

But when I walked away I decided to love myself.  To acknowledge that things weren’t right and that it was worth finding the courage to admit I was wrong.  To start life over.  As one.   Continue reading

The Perfect Diet

It sounds so promising at first.

All I have to do is cut out carbs?  Restrict my calories?  Replace a meal with a smoothie?  Eat like a caveman?  Avoid meat?  Eat raw?  Eat “clean”?

We’re lured in by before and after images, by people who look like they’ve got it all figured out; a solution to all of our problems.

So you buy the book, the supplements, the groceries, and the promise being sold.

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